My friends...I use this phrase in a joking manner almost always - and I just want to take a few moments to give you some background.
When e.d. and I had met for the first time, we were laughing about how lame dating has become. How so many people assume they have so much in common...and then find out a month later that they were completely wrong for eachother...initiating somewhat of a shocked response.
B: "I love to snorkel!"
G: "Oh my Gosh! Me too!"
B: "Have you ever gone snorkeling in the Caribbean?"
G: "Once while I was on my honeymoon (lol)"
B: "Oh thats cool...I've gone snorkeling at Metro...you know...I go and look for lose change"
Seriously? People. How often do you snorkel? How often does anyone snorkel? Even if you are blessed with oceanside property...how often do you snorkel?
This is where commonality meets enjoyable activities...they are NOT one in the same.
If you are looking to meet someone for the long haul...wake up and pay attention!
If you spend 50% of your time working, 10% of your time maintaining the homestead, 20% of your time tending to your children, 20% of your time sleeping...try to look for someone that can handle spending at least 50% of their time at home.
You need to find someone that can take the day to day blows with you...and get back up with only minor scrapes. You need to find someone that enjoys doing yardwork, if that is how you spend 80% of your days in the summertime. Lastly, you need to find someone that you can live with, period. Someone that will make you laugh when you finally say, you know what, its Saturday, but I really need to clean the damn bathroom. I don't want to, I'm not going to enjoy it...so please just stand there and amuse me while I get this done.
Now, I know what you're thinking, "Nina...when was the last time you sustained a relationship?" I know, I know...I guess I'm just waiting to meet the one guy that gets just as turned on as I do about coupon clipping and rock shows on PBS.
P.S. I always have the best intentions when it comes to coupon use...but I have probably used maybe five coupons in my entire life (4 at DSW). I just really enjoy cutting them...and laughing about the marketing genius behind placing the coupon for smuckers page left from the coupon for tampax. I know...gross, right?
